What is the idea behind doing things that one does not want, may be we do it out of courtesy. One does not want to indulge into conflict with anyone that is why he feel that lets not have a enraged argument. As if the argument may lead to bitterness of the relationship.
The monotonous life leads to stagnation but if you have spare time you’ll definitely think over whats going on in the life. The desires and the dreams as they pave the way, you get busy. If you are not enjoying what you are doing then some things need to change.
Change need to be good, as a matter of fact its what is required to make things fall into place. Things that you can change are easier to do because you don’t really know what is in line. So let it happen and see what comes in your way.